A bond is sorta created when u tell someone a secret, it also means you trust that person well enough to go and disclose too. Now you may have your reasons on why you tell someone your deepest darkest secret; it could be that you feel alone and helpless unless you have someone to share it with, it could be that you don't really know what to do and need an advice or maybe, by telling, you feel like its a way of handing your burden to someone else. Whatever your reason may be, you expect to gain something out of it.
In my case when I reveal something so personal, it usually is to one person only, and that is in hopes that I get some kind of comfort out of it. I want that someone to tell me "it is gonna be okay," and or even make our bond stronger, because we have something so huge that we share. I expect a level of understanding towards one another even though it is my secret, my burden. I'm great at putting a smile on and doing whatever, but sometimes no matter how much I comfort myself that I'm not alone, somehow I still feel left with the burden...
In my case when I reveal something so personal, it usually is to one person only, and that is in hopes that I get some kind of comfort out of it. I want that someone to tell me "it is gonna be okay," and or even make our bond stronger, because we have something so huge that we share. I expect a level of understanding towards one another even though it is my secret, my burden. I'm great at putting a smile on and doing whatever, but sometimes no matter how much I comfort myself that I'm not alone, somehow I still feel left with the burden...
What are your thoughts?
You are an amazing person and no one should ever think differently. You are not alone and though some days are harder than others, you are strong and will see great days ahead!
ReplyDeleteYou are a strong person, I can say that for sure.
ReplyDeleteLive and love your life, it's yours and yours only.That is one lesson I learned in 2009.:)
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